Old(er) Blood on the Water …

by FH2o on November 28, 2005

Come 29th November, I’ll have to update my profile as 49 going on 19 … Shucks!

Celebrated my birthday earlier on sunday although I didn’t tell my friends that it was; they presuming that the High Tea Invitation was for my house warming. It then occurred to me that they might think that this old blood does not get any less sneakier with age! It’s not that folks; just that I don’t want you all to go to any trouble to get me presents. I dislike imposing on or have others waiting on me. Your presence and friendship are already presents enough. Remember that “all I need is the air that I breathe” … :)
The seriously funny thing is that I just don’t feel any older but I must admit I sometimes don’t like how the man in the mirror looks. I like myself but why can’t he look just a little bit better, eh? This world places so much darn premium on appearances. To think that there was a time when I had a full head of hair. Sigh! Hey! It can’t be me; this is NOT me! I remember a time when I could vaguely be called ‘handsome’! How can I look so darn old now? Gulp! No wonder my kids affectionately call me “Grandpa”! But this ‘grandpa’ feels blessed with love, health, creativity and peace of mind. Make no mistake - there had been deep pains and some scars are still on the mend. A heartfelt thank you to all whom I had encountered on the road taken thus far on this wonderful journey call Life.

May I continue to love, learn, share and grow; and play my part well on this stage. Om Shanti.

I grow old . . . I grow old . . .
I shall wear the bottoms of my trousers rolled.
- - - - T. S. Eliot “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock”

Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.
- - - - Satchel Paige

How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you was?
- - - - Satchel Paige

Age seldom arrives smoothly or quickly. It’s more often a succession of jerks.
- - - - Jean Rhys

Old age is the most unexpected of all the things that happen to a man.
- - - - Leon Trotsky

Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years. We grow old by deserting out ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.
- - - - Samuel Ullman

The old believe everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, the young know everything.
- - - - Oscar Wilde

You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear; as young as your hope, as old as your despair.
- - - - Douglas MacArthur

Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional.
- - - - Chili Davis

The years teach much which the days never knew.
- - - - Ralph Waldo Emerson


Forty is the old age of youth; fifty the youth of old age.
- - - - Victor Hugo

I will never give in to old age until I become old. And I’m not old yet!
- - - - Tina Turner

Note: If you are feeling nostalgic and want to get goosebumps (well, for me anyway as it brings back memories); click here to hear
Cyndi Lauper and Sarah McLachlan’s acoustic performance on TV, singing “Time After Time” at the American Music Awards.

Photo of ripple on the water surface reflecting heaven (sky) and earth (the trees) in this our endless Circle/Cycle of Life in a kaleidscope of colours (experiences).

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{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

@ロウ 。LOW@ November 28, 2005 at 9:16 pm

Happy Birthday, my friend! Look beyond the mirror you are well below 20! :p

Happysurfer November 28, 2005 at 11:24 pm

Hey, Happy Birthday and best wishes for many, many more happy returns of the day. Great quotes and I might add one more which my class-teacher used very often - Old enough to know better and young enough not to care. Have a wonderful your-day!

Pandabonium November 29, 2005 at 3:04 am

Happy Birthday. I like the photo of the ripples and all the great quotes.

FH2O November 29, 2005 at 4:06 am

Ha ha ha! Thanks for the wishes. Appreciated.
U folks R Great! U make my day. Much better than those sms wishes u get from the phone company and your insurance agent!!

Another often-heard quote - “One year older, one year wiser”!
Really? :)

Be Well!

fullmoon November 29, 2005 at 11:12 am

Hey old man !

Sorry to disappoint you, but I GOT you something on your BIG number day! Next year at the half-centennial you must really do a LONG expedition to celebrate it the way it should be celebrated, ya ? (ha ! already imagining you at 50 already!)

anyways, happy birthday !

best wishes

YD November 29, 2005 at 4:47 pm

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Great post! and great pictures!

I like the ending sentence - The endless cycle of life in a kaleidscope of colours. Whether we see it as chaos, or as brilliance of rays, depends on the choice we make to live our life.

Cheers.

FH2O November 29, 2005 at 10:49 pm

Fullmoon - thks 4 d present. I’ll be over the moon if its an aquabound!! :o)
Yup! Must definitely do a Long Expedition to celebrate 5 decades worth!

yd - thks. how we see the world solely depends on our perception of it. I see serenity and feels peace on the waters but others sees danger (crocs, waves, etc) and feel fear and anxieties!!

Lrong November 30, 2005 at 7:03 pm

Yappeeee 49!! Looks like I have to call you ‘taikoh’ alreadeaaa….

FH2O December 3, 2005 at 7:14 am

lrong - thks ‘ah tee’!
Btw this taikoh thinks that some of the recent incendiary comments posted at your blog may need some dousing with H2o!!! ;o)

Robin December 4, 2005 at 10:14 pm

fullmoon…50? Oh dear…tsk, tsk, Francis Kor Kor will cane you.

Hopefully by then, mid-life crisis is over.

Yes, keep smiling, Francis, and thanks for the great blog.

Guan & Law December 6, 2005 at 8:27 pm

Just managed to log in your website today. Thank you very much for inviting us to the hi-tea which we thought it was for your house warming.

We only got to know that it was for your birthday when Mrs.Ho served us your little yet tasty birthday’s muffin. Wish Happy Belated Birthday and forever young on the water..:)

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