Thursday, July 19, 2007
7/19/2007 01:14:00 PM

Down & Out

posted by FH2o

When I went to work this morning there was this guy sitting at the stairs with his head bowed down staring at the floors, looking lost in his problems and miseries. He didn’t even budge or look up as I tried to engage his attention as I walked past. Later he would be sprawled out on the landing. He could possibly be drunk.

I had forgotten all about him being swamped with work with emails and phone calls to return until I heard a commotion outside several hours later. Someone had called the police probably feeling threatened by this person loitering in the staircase. He was sober when the policed questioned him and was taken away and looking at him – a picture of a man who had given up on life; I felt sorrier for him more than anything else and wondering if there is anything I could have done for him.

He serves as a reminder that we are much luckier than he is and that there is much that we take for granted and that our lack of empathy for others makes us feel threatened by the likes of vagrants and the down and out. I trust that the rest of your work week would be spent up and in a nice swanky place and not seeking solace in some stairways ... and incurring the irritations rather than the sympathies of others. Be well.

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I was fortunate in my college days in that, during my Sociology course, one day they brought in a number of homeless people they'd picked up in Portland so that we could talk to them. It turned out that the majority of them were homeless by choice (and were really interesting people, I might add!). They had simply decided that the drudgery of an ordinary work & family life wasn't for them, and they'd opted for total freedom. (They also preferred to be called "hobos" rather than "homeless" since they lived migratory lives.)

One of the two exceptions was a boy who had run away from an abusive, alcoholic father (and, it turned out, was a former classmate of one of the other students in the class!). The other, by his own admission, was a "wino", a man who had caved in to his frustrations and had traded his life for alcohol. Both these individuals were in sore need of help, but neither of them really seemed to want it.

Yes, Francis, we are definitely very lucky in many ways compared to many people of the world. However, as I've seen first-hand, "homeless" and "unlucky" are not always the same thing. While some of them are tragic, others are where they are by their own choice and are even happy about it.

The guy you were talking about sounded pretty tragic, though.
he was just sitting there minding his own business why somebody had to call the cops on him lah!
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